One thing you take for granted when you’re younger and in school, is how often you’re put in situations where you get to meet people and make new friends.
When you get older, and you’re mostly surrounded by work-mates, your significant other and a well-established group of friends, you rarely have the chance to make new connections, and in doing so, expand your horizons.
I know a lot of people aren’t interested in that- they think I’m silly for actively meeting new people, going to events on my own, getting involved in random projects or having lunch/dinner/coffee whatever with old acquaintances or random (properly vetted-hah) strangers.
When I moved back to Atlanta my biggest fear was losing my French language skills. After almost 5 years in Paris, there was no way I was going to let myself be that person in 20 years saying “I used to speak fluently.. but I only remember “xx” now.” When a new acquaintance at Coke told me about the French Language Meetup Group, I hesitated, but then went that evening un-accompanied to that month’s Meetup at Après Diem.
Let’s just say, that night changed a lot in my life, and I’m very thankful. The rest of that story will have to be “to be continued…”
For now, check out the MeetUp group website – this is the link to the French Group, but there are DOZENS of others to get involved with!
http://www.meetup.com/Atlanta-French-Language-Meetup/